Saturday, July 3, 2010

2 Months Home!!

Wow!! Where do I begin? These past 2 months have gone by so fast, yet it seems like Roman has been here for so long :) I know I've read that in other adoptive family posts as well, but it's so true! He has changed SO much in 2 months - it's unbelievable. He has adapted so amazingly well. I have been totally surprised. I didn't really know what to expect, but I was braced for much worse!

Here is my rambling of how Roman has changed from when we got him on April 23rd (in no particular order):

He has been a great sleeper from the beginning. He slept in a pack 'n play or crib in a separate room from us since we had him with us in Russia. He used to wake up several times in the night, cry out briefly, and then go right back to sleep. I can't tell you the last time he's done that. When we first picked him up, he was, of course, very excitable about his food. He always looked like he was on the edge of his seat, and when the food stopped coming we had major meltdowns. Now, he will actually sit back in his chair and enjoy his meal and not get upset when food is over. We deduced on our own that he has an allergy to cow's milk. Now that he is on Soy milk he doesn't spit up like he used to do SO much. He has gone from me hardly being able to get him to drink much fluids to drinking about 3 cups of milk per day - out of a sippy cup! Yay! He's gained about 5 pounds since we got him! He's still amazingly strong, which we noticed in Russia. I'm pretty sure if he knew what one was, he could do more pull-ups than me!

His top 2 teeth came through the gums shortly after we came home, and he now has 2 more bottom teeth already poked through the gums. He still sits and goes potty for us - he wears diapers, but still goes potty at least 3 times a day. He was on the verge of walking when we were in Russia - we were able to get him to walk those quick few steps between us at the apartment in Kras, but really started walking long distances after being home about 3 weeks. He walks everywhere, and is very fast. He also prides himself on his climbing skills - hoping he doesn't learn to climb out of the crib anytime soon!

I think the most amazing advancement he's had is language. He's 16 mos old, and in the past few weeks he has picked up the following words: Hi (with a wave), Mama, Dada, "K" for Kate, nana for banana (this was actually his first English word that he learned while we were in Moscow - he LOVED the bananas we stuffed him with :), doh for dog, woo woo for woof woof, "nah" for nose, "moh" for mouth. He can point to his nose and mouth when you ask him. He understands tons more as well - especially the phrase "no, no!" Ha! He mostly hears this phrase when he's grabbing a computer, cell phone, or tv remote - he loves electronics! He already called 911 on my cell phone one day (an old one without a sim card - didn't know it was possible!).

He cracks us up all the time. He LOVES his sister, and she LOVES him!! It's awesome - they play so well together when they aren't snatching from each other :)

And the BEST part about Roman is not only his personality, but how much he loves to be loved!! He will squeeze you when he hugs you and give you so many kisses. It totally melts your heart.

God has blessed us SO incredibly much - we are loving having Roman here with us. 2 families that we met on our 2nd trip have been in Russia picking up there children this week, and it's been so awesome to know it's happening for someone else!

I'll try to write more now that we are "settling in" a little bit more. So many changes so quickly!

Friday, June 18, 2010

Pictures!!


Ok, I know I really need to post some things on the blog! SO much has happened!! BUT, we just had the pictures of Roman done 6 weeks after returning home, and I had to post a sample! Isn't he PRECIOUS!!!?? And our photographer is amazing!

His 6 weeks home baby pics :) God is SO good and amazing! Enjoy!!


Wednesday, May 12, 2010

HOME!!!!!!!

A week and a half after returning home, I'm just now finding time to blog about it! Whew - it's been a tiring time. I developed strep throat on the 24 hour travel time, which only got worse as the time went on. Not fun! Poor Wes stepped it up though and took care of Roman most of the trip. I felt terrible, but I literally could hardly move. I took all the Advil I had, and Wes bought me more when we were stateside in NY. He literally had two crying babies to take care of on the flights home, me and Roman.

Roman did NOT sleep but about an hour and a half on the first 9.5 hour flight. He stayed awake during our entire layover in NY (about 4 hours I think), but he did finally sleep in our flight from NY to Memphis. Poor Wes - he did an amazing job though!!!! What a wonderful Daddy and Husband!!! I couldn't have done it without him. At one point I was sobbing in his lap telling him I wasn't going to make it - obviously I did! But, the most important thing is that Roman did TOO!! YAY!!!

Everything went smoothly in NY going through immigration, and we ended up getting home around 10:30 p.m. Memphis time on Sat. night, May 1st. We went to my parent's house that night, and Roman slept all night.

Since we've been home, he has done amazingly well! He's been eating and sleeping great. We've had a few ups and downs. At first he didn't like to lose sight of me for a second. Now, I would say it's been extended to at least a few minutes :) Kate and Roman have been working things our as new brother and sister. We've had our moments, but I can't complain there at all. Kate has been awesome, and she's going to be a great big sister!

Life has been hectic adjusting to two (as expected), but we've already made a trip to Target and Dada's shop. We've been blessed to have meals brought to us by our community group which has been a life saver! I've been so out of it from being sick, jet lag and having a little bug this week as well. I'm ready to feel "normal" and myself again, so I can enjoy the kids together! Maybe with 2 I'll never fell that way - ha!

We are truly blessed by our Lord, and He worked many miracles to bring this little guy home. We are now a family of four :)

Friday, April 30, 2010

US Embassy

Today went great at the Embassy appointment!!!!! YAY!! Roman's visa is in hand, and we are packing away :)

We're trying to make sure we have enough food for the long day - he is quite an eater!!

Please pray our flights go better than our first one!! Regardless, we're come home tomorrow, and I'll be thrilled :)

Last post from RUSSIA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thursday, April 29, 2010

In Moscow

Our flight to Moscow was terrible - Roman was not a happy camper! Not scared, just tired and teething! We have our embassy appt. tomorrow and then we leave for HOME on Sat. - CAN'T WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Last Post from Kras!

I've been busy, busy packing!!! Yay!! It takes a while to pack up 3 weeks worth of stuff after you've "settled in" at a place :) I think I've got all I need for Roman in my carry-on, his suitcase is packed, and mine is packed except for a few last minute items.

We have to get up and be ready by 4:30, but I don't care!! I'll just be ready to go! Actually I was thinking about that even if I get up at 3 or 3:30 a.m., it's really helping me transition to Moscow time, since it is 4 hours behind us. So, really I'll be getting up at 7:00 a.m.

Anyway, nothing really new to report. Roman did well again today not taking a morning nap. He at lunch and we put him down at 1:00. He napped 3 hours yesterday, and has napped 2 hours so far. He is teething, so he did hit a very grumpy spell around 10:30 this morning, but once he got passed it he was fine.

Wes goes around 6:00 p.m. with our facilitators to pick up Roman's passport - I can't wait to see it :) One step closer to going home!

Monday, April 26, 2010

Ready to Go Home!!!!

We're totally bored now and ready to go home!! Only one more day (Tues), then off to Moscow on Wed and then home on Sat.....can't wait!!

Roman is napping now. He woke up a couple of times in the night and cried out as he has been doing. I don't know if he's dreaming, or if he slightly wakes up and is unsettled. I'm not sure, but I'm thankful that he goes right back to sleep. Today we tried to keep him up all morning, did lunch and then put him down for a nap at 1:00. I really think he's in that in-between stage of dropping his first nap, b/c the past couple of days he would take a really long nap early and then not nap in the afternoon. So, I thought we would try this today, and so far it's been working!

The most amazing thing to me is that Roman is actually using the potty! We decided to keep him in the habit of using it (while still using diapers, of course), and he has continued to amaze me. This may gross some of you out, but after eating a huge breakfast, I put him on the potty about 30 min. later and he did numbers 1 & 2 - and he's only 14 mos old! Craziness!!

Anyway, after he gets up from his nap we're going to go bum around at the baby store here. It's great weather outside - sunny and 54 degrees! I hear him stirring now......